2006-10-23T17:22:00.000-07:00

Maybe you think that sex three times a week should do the trick but, your partner thinks otherwise. Maybe three times every six months would do them fine.

Both parties need to share a certain amount of vitality, yearning, and lust so that sex could turn out to be pleasurable for the two. Since the name of the game is quality rather than quantity.

A few issues that could likely disrupt sexual rapport altogether:

His age:

His body undergoes alterations through aging so too his sexual lifestyle.
(Who wouldn't like to reach forties yet manage fitness displays of a man in his early twenties in bed?)
His degree of fitness might not be the same any longer.
(Although that's not a rule.)
A seasoned man is not able to keep a hardon similar to what he had back in the day.
(Although what he dose with it in the time given is the key.)
His semen production gets lowered so does its release pressure. (Which can be a major factor concerning a womans perspective.)
Erections might not last much longer either.
(There are some really good enhancers out there don't worry.)

Arousal pathways:

Some times visual stimulation alone does not suffice a man and usually never a woman.
(It may take more than just visual to get someone aroused even if you are sexually appealing to the eye.)

The power of stress:

Routine is counterproductive when it comes to sex time. Tackling balance between work, family, peers, health concerns and sexual life is rather complicated. At which point sexual appetite will diminish with interfering factors.

Women are more susceptible to outside interferance. Anyone is bound to get all worked up and freaked out. After awhile without relizing it you become disconnected, shortfused, and deffinately not in the mood to play.

Relaxation is a must:

Put things on hold while catching up with a loved one, who knows maybe you're in for atleast a reasonable sex life. Try and get around routine, maybe a session of mutual masturbation.

Take on some sports. Exercising gets the blood flowing to all parts of your body. It will definately make your sex drive increase, plus when you look good you feel good, and it feels good to know your partner likes what he feels. Ok if that makes sense lets go on. If it dont make sense try it and see what I mean for your self.

A strong body and a certain amount (the more the better) of limberness will come in handy with some of the sexcapades I've read about.

Sexual disability:

Unfulfilled streaks takes its toll by rendering people withdrawn. From then on even affectionate strokes could fail. Meanwhile they begin placing sex aside rather than feel ashamed of themselves once again.

The same applies for both precocious ejaculation and erectile dysfunctions.

In contrast, possibly being stricken by yeast infections the women might come to feel discomfort or even pain during sexual intercourse thereby keeping sexual rapport at bay.

In for a hardship? Any decent relationship is bound to go through dire straits. Stress, Depression, Problems at Work, Friends issues, interferances , and fallouts directly affect you when it comes to sex.

As always effective communication is needed. Knowing where each other is coming from is half the battle. Get to know one another again, you feel in love for a reason. The reason is still there you just need to wipe away all the noise and see it again.

Men usually would rather get a visectomy than talk much less about mushy stuff.

Keep it simple like when you were first dating get to know them again. Pretend that your back when you first met how you felt looking at them, talking to them finding them interesting wanting to hear more. Instead of wanting them to just shutup.

Good Luck remeber a rut is just a rut not a hole.

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